Topic: Raising the Bar
As North Americans we love beauty. We are slaves to our senses and our most dominant one is sight. Beauty has the power to dazzle, to cheer up, to influence. Personal beauty is believed by some to be worth more than moral character, which one cannot judge so quickly. Beauty is right out there, in your face.
When we are young, we are all beautiful, at least to the old. We do not see our beauty, we take it for granted or we think we are ugly. My niece is 5' 10 inches tall with dark blonde hair and sapphire eyes. She is starving herself. She thinks she is fat.
Are all young women anorexic? The statistics say no, but there are too many fasting girls. In times of starvation in distant parts of the world, North American girls think that they are too fat. In an overcrowded world, where catastrophe can come unheralded by modern technology; witness the Tsunami in Asia - we are also one catastrophe away from famine.
Yet North American girls starve themselves, while the population grows ever so much fatter. We are not a nation of gluttons, but we do so much less excercise than 100 years ago - that it is alarming. For us fat is not beautiful. It is ugly, demeaning and something to be ashamed of.
"Suffer for beauty", our mothers said. And we do. We diet, exercise, withold, go hungry, wear uncomfortable binding bras, cinches, elastic underwear and high heels. We dye our hair, wax our legs, get plastic surgery for our noses. Are we happier now?
Probably. We are no longer completely at the mercy of our parent's genetic makeup. The wallflower can now easily change into a rose. She may not have to suffer being labeled as "plain" or "ugly" or even more laughable: "having a good personality".
What is the cost of this? The bar has been raised. It is like being at MIT. Everyone is smart. Now everyone can be beautiful.
Posted by workinprogress11
at 9:49 AM EST
Updated: Saturday, 15 January 2005 9:52 AM EST